Remember the pastPlan the presentProtect the future

Keep your family's story and plans where everyone can find them

Build your family tree, tag the photos and videos that matter, and keep wills, policies and wishes safe. Then invite the people you love to add their part.

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Free to start. No card needed. You decide who sees what.

Three generations of a family smiling together for a selfie around a birthday cake
Marion has added you as a friend on ToMyFamily.com
Tagged in 12 photos from Grandpa's 90th
Private by design. Nothing is public.
You choose who sees each item.
Export everything, anytime.
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Before you scroll on

Life goes quickly. An 80-year life is about 4,000 weeks.

We spend most of them working hard. If we are lucky, we build something to leave behind: for our children, our friends, and the causes we care about.

And we want more than our money to outlast us. We want the people closest to us to keep our stories, our photos, our voice, and the things we would still tell them if we could.

If you were gone tomorrow, would your family know where everything is, and what you wanted them to have?
Each dot is one week of an 80-year life. Amber: the weeks behind you at 45.
Your most valuable asset

Everything you have worked for, and everything you want to be remembered for, in one place

What you have built

  • Your will, wishes and who you trust to carry them out
  • Accounts, property, policies and who inherits them
  • Guardians for your children and gifts toward their future
  • The charities and causes you want to support

Who you are

  • Photos and videos, tagged to the people in them
  • Your voice, your letters and your life story
  • A family tree your grandchildren can add to
  • Messages delivered on milestones you will not see
Why families keep it

You can cancel an app. You do not cancel your family's memory.

Irreplaceable. Records, photos and voice notes that exist nowhere else.

Shared. Parents, children and grandparents are all in it together.

Always relevant. Births, birthdays, moves and losses bring families back.

Start your family's record, freeFree to start. No card needed.
How it works

Start with you. Your family fills in the rest.

  1. 1

    Build your tree

    Add parents, siblings, children, cousins and pets. Note where each person was born, where they rest, and the stories that go with them.

  2. 2

    Add what matters

    Upload photos and videos and tag who is in them. Keep your will, policies and funeral wishes in a secure vault.

  3. 3

    Invite your people

    Add family and friends by phone or email. They get a note from you and can add their own branch, photos and memories.

See it in action

Everything your family needs, on one screen

Your home screen shows how ready your family is, what's new, and what to do next. The app goes with you everywhere.

The ToMyFamily home dashboard showing a 72% family readiness score, upcoming birthdays, the family tree, document status, estate summary and recent memories
The ToMyFamily mobile app home screen
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Readiness score
One number, and the next three steps to raise it.
2
Family at a glance
Every generation, who has joined, and who can see what.
3
On your phone
Scan a document, add photos or record a memory anywhere.

One home for your family's past, present and plans

Everything below comes with a free account. Family Plus adds unlimited storage, voice memories and letters to the future.

Family tree and profiles

Full name and nickname, birthplace, dates, burial place and cemetery photos, plus parents, siblings and pets.

Photos and videos, tagged

Tag people and pets. Every photo shows up on the profile of everyone in it.

Friends who are family

Add close friends with where you met (country and city) and the year you met.

Secure document vault

Wills, powers of attorney, insurance policies and beneficiary records, organized and encrypted.

Wishes and memories

Funeral preferences, voice memories and letters to the future, released to the right person at the right time.

A guide for your executor

When the time comes, the person you choose gets a step-by-step checklist and the documents they need.

For every chapter

Built for the moments families remember

A new baby, a wedding, a parent turning 65, a goodbye. ToMyFamily reminds you what to update, and helps your family find what they need when it counts.

  • A baby arrives
    Add them to the tree and name a guardian.
  • Two families join
    Weddings connect two trees in one tap.
  • Holidays and reunions
    Share the photos and tag everyone there.
  • Saying goodbye
    Wishes, documents and a memorial page in one place.
Gifts that grow

The bigger your family circle, the more your kids can grow

Connect your children's savings or education account, and everyone you invite to ToMyFamily can send a gift on birthdays, holidays and graduations, each with a personal note.

  1. 1Connect the kids' account. Savings, education or custodial investment accounts.
  2. 2Invite your circle. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, godparents and friends.
  3. 3They get a reminder, and give. Every gift and note is saved for your child to read when they take over their own page.
Wealth contributors
Maya's circle
Given since birth
$7,310
  • Thatha 12th birthday“For your camera fund. Love, Thatha”$250
  • Aunt Lena Christmas“Save it for something big!”$100
  • Godmother Anne Graduation“So proud of you.”$150

Example family. 18 people have given to Maya since she was born.

For the people who help families plan

See partner options →
Financial advisorsServe the families who invite you, and meet the next generation early.InsurersOffer coverage at life events, only to families who ask for it.Funeral homes, attorneys and plannersBe listed where families look at life's big moments.EmployersGive Family Plus as a benefit your people will actually use.

Simple plans

Free$0Family tree, vault basics and 5 GB of photos and video.
Family Plus Most popular$7.99 /month or $79/yearUnlimited storage, voice memories and letters to the future.
Legacy$499 one timeA lifetime archive and a printed family book.
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Questions families ask

Who can see my information?

Only the people you choose. You set access for each document, photo and profile, and you can change it anytime.

What happens when I add someone?

If you add their phone or email, they get a short note: "Marion has added you as a friend on ToMyFamily.com." They can accept, decline or stop invites.

Do you sell my data or show ads?

No. Insurance or partner offers appear only if you turn them on, and they never see your documents.

What if I stop paying for Family Plus?

Your tree and documents stay on the free plan, and you can export everything at any time.

Start the record your grandchildren will thank you for

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